Thursday, December 31, 2009

New life!

They say life changes when u pass out of school, they say life changes once you pass out of ur college and start working; they say life changes when you get married; they say life changes when you have your kids around, and life keeps on changing. So what is permanent! Its the CHANGE!!


Yeah! its difficult to put to words as to how life has changed for me after marriage. But definitely it has. Once thing here to take notice of is, Have I changed as a person?? Life around me has changed but Have I as a person changed?? Can I feel my own internal self changing or changed! I only need to answer this - So my answer for this is - YES! very much! Ok (though i hate this word!), let me put it straight.


A whole new envirnoment, new house that you make it your home, new ppl to be included to your heart's list of loved one's, new thoughts, new dreams, new goals set, a whole new set of apprehensions, new set of to-do and not-to-do lists set upon ur own self!! OH!!! a whole new arena! It takes a while as a girl to under-go all these changes and the intermission period is the best i feel!!! You are trying to learn things and be the way ppl like :) We on our own change ourselves!! Thts what is amazing in a girl's persona. She can definitely adjust herself and make ppl call her to be their OWN!! (Many of you might not understand what I'm putting down, but it makes sense to lot other; just trying to put down how i felt and how I'm).


Do I need to look back at my own self as to how I was before marriage??? yeah, even at that time i was a girl adjustable to changes but definitely MARRIAGE or WEDDING is the biggest change. Retrospection!! is more important to enhance one self and its gives you a feel-good factor! :) I got it when I did it. (Dunno y I started writing about this that too on the 1st day of the new yr!! The first new year kicking off with my Hubby. Li'l excited or may be not also.. but for sure I would make this one of the memorable yrs in our life). Taking leave for now but dunno when I would turn up again as I don't make promises to break them ;)


Cheers n Luv


Archie